This column was written by Mitsu Emig and featured in New York Biz 3/18/2017 edition and translated in English by Mitsu Emig.
Lately I have more and more of the performance coaching jobs that I am having in my practice. This is about how well you can perform whatever you do at your work or your private.
In TV show, I saw a psychiatrist gives performance coaching to Wall Street traders and get a million dollar bonus or something on the coaching job when the traders make a lot of money. How exciting it is about performance coaching!
I have more cases than the others from whom actually want to review their entire life and their performance on their life too. How they lived and if they want to stay in the way or not.
When your life gets to the point past the half of it, people tend to start reviewing their life and want to make some change if there is some room in it. This kind of request more or less is not so hard for us to accomplish so the results are mostly satisfying to them too.
Particular types of performance such as wanting to be better at speech or sales talk. Those requests are not only a few either.
If we consider of basic idea of those performance issues, it always is relating to self image of good or bad. You may think in instinct that you are sure some people wouldn’t accept you or oppose your ideas when you speak out in front of mass audience and the idea makes difficult for you to speak out.
However if you believe that you would be accepted by people whatever you speak out or you wouldn’t even care what people think of you, then the feelings of yours shouldn’t be different from each other when you speak to one person or 1000 people.
Of course it affects how much you believe in what you are talking about. I learned it from my own experience to speak out on the radio show lately. When I believe my ideas of happiness or hypnosis then I feel easy to speak out even on the radio.
Improving your self image, of course make yourself to believe in you and what you speak out means simply get yourself confidence.
How would you get yourself confidence? We are going to look for a reason why your confidence was diminished in your childhood and treat the incident. It’s not so hard for us to accomplish in hypnosis.
Have a wonderful day!!